Be confused, it’s where you begin to learn new things.
Be broken, it’s where you begin to heal.
Be frustrated, it’s where you start to make more authentic decisions.
Be sad, because if we are brave we can hear our heart’s wisdom through it.
Be whatever you are right now.
No more hiding.
You are worthy, ALWAYS !
~ S.C Louri
So the recent times have taught me quite a lot of things. A controversial topic though, it is the only platform through which we reflect ourselves : LIFE !
Which is totally unexpecting and surprising at the same time.
Though it’s not easy to learn the rules coz it actually has NO RULES ! And I ain’t a professional for the same, but I have a few things to share with you :
- Be the REAL YOU !
There’s nothing more important than being a truer version of yourself. Rather than faking it up and presenting a fancy world to someone I’d rather choose to be a shrude but a true person. Be unapologetically yourself !C
an I share something with you ALL?
I have been one of those straightforward and blunt persons who prefers to pour the heart out rather than layering up things with sugar-coated words. And I recently have started loving this quality of mine whereas some people really get offended by this. The world needs more of realism and genuine people rather than the one’s who promote only illusions and dreams.
- Delete the NEGATIVE people :
Being surrounded by your loved ones who have always blessed and guided you is a boon. However, removing the toxic people away from your lives is equally important. Those who always and always take but never give back and end up encroaching the boundaries set by you need to move out of your life immediately. And one doesn’t need to be guilty for this! Take the charge of your life and just let them move away. Surround yourself with loving, caring and the one’s who make you feel safer & positive.
- It’s alright to LET GO !
Practicing to let go something/someone is the hardest of all. With time we all realize that “not everyone you lose is a loss“, rather it is a blessing in disguise ! We need to accept that some people are not meant to be a part of our lives, many leave us on the way and many back out from our lives too! It’s all about taking back the control of your life, loving and embracing youself for what all that you have been ! It helps you flow with the flow and thereby unlock your potential.
- ACCEPT THEM :
Not having the power to change something in our lives means that is not in our hands. We just need to breathe,….breathe long enough and deeply and have that FAITH that everything will eventually fall in place. TIME is the biggest reliever . It does wonders and having faith plus ACCEPTING certain events will only help you avoid over thinking about things which are absolutely not in your control. Accepting your present status and facing the current situation with confidence is sometimes the only solution. Bloom where you are planted !
- You aren’t PERFECT DARLING !
Stop getting pressurized for something you’re unable to complete. One needs to understand that we are NO Super-humans and perhaps we cannot make everyone happy. It is purely not our duty to oblige everyone. We aren’t perfect, We are just humans. This hypothetical stage of ‘perfection’ can never be attained, at least not by me. And therefore I have stopped feeling guilty about not being able to carry off each and every duty of mine diligently. It’s alright to make mistakes, it’s alright to miss out on your targets. We need to live our lives, not punish ourselves by setting up unrealistic goals for ourselves.
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